Tudor Platon

An Almost Perfect Family

After 30 years of marriage, my parents told me they were separating. I fell in love and started my own family during this painful process. The film explores the different shapes that love can take between parents and children and children who become parents.

SYNOPSIS

At my parents’ 20th marriage anniversary, I filmed them while they kiss and dance together. Almost ten years later, I found my mother in a nervous breakdown. I try to make her speak about what happened between her and my dad. This is how the film starts and how I started filming it. I had heard my parents talking about separating while I was a child, but now it was happening. Both my parents were suffering, so I did what I always do in emotionally intense times: I filmed. In the midst of all this, I was falling in love and starting my own family and started to see striking parallels between me and my parents. I followed my mother as she was recovering from the separation, my father as he settled into his new home and my wife’s pregnancy. My relationship with Carla changed after our son was born, as she was diagnosed with postpartum depression. We go together through harrowing moments and learn how complicated love becomes within a family.

DIRECTOR/WRITER
Tudor Platon

PRODUCERS
Carla Fotea
Ada Solomon

PRODUCTION COMPANY
 microFILM

COUNTRY
Romania

Tudor Platon

TUDOR PLATON is a Romanian documentary director. He made his debut with HOUSE OF DOLLS (2020), which premiered in the Documentary Competition of the Sarajevo Film Festival and was selected for Transylvania IFF, Zagreb Dox, Astra IFF, and Biografilm FF. His second film, AN ALMOST PERFECT FAMILY, continues an extensive series of very personal works related to his own family. He also works as a director of photography. He is known for films like THE CHRISTMAS GIFT (2018), Academy Awards shortlisted, 4:15 P.M. THE END OF THE WORLD (2016), nominated for Palme d'Or for Best Short Film or THOU SHALT NOT KILL (2019), awarded at IndieLisboa IFF.

I’ve been taking pictures and filming ever since I was in high school. Back then, I didn’t know why I was doing it. Over time, I noticed I hide behind the camera, especially when I can’t cope with the surrounding reality. I took thousands of pictures and filmed hundreds of hours of footage when my paternal grandparents, who raised me, died one after the other. I filmed when I was expelled from high school, when my dog died, when I visited Auschwitz and during my first trip with my remaining grandmother, Cica. The storm of overwhelming emotions seems easier to live with when there’s a camera in my hand. My parents had always had fights and discussions about separating. When I was a child, my mother often threatened my father that she’d leave him, but she never did. When I was about to turn 28, my mum visited me and told me my dad had moved away from home. She wasn’t able to say that he had left her, only that he had left. That’s when I started filming. For almost four years, I filmed my mum and dad trying to get over the scars of a dysfunctional marriage. I lived a love story next to Carla, and I watched her struggle to leave behind her family’s past to become my wife and, most importantly, a mother. I filmed myself in an attempt to understand my parents, overcome my fears and start my own family by becoming a husband and a father. Throughout this process, I tried to be honest and stay true to my emotions. Not only am I revealing to an audience of strangers a very vulnerable image of my family, but I also bear the responsibility of this representation in front of our loved ones and those who are yet to be born in our family. This film is the embodiment of a long and intense journey, from the pain and sorrow of ending a marriage to the hope of starting a new one.

DIRECTOR’S STATEMENT

Carla Fotea

CARLA FOTEA, a producer at microFILM Romania, handles fiction and documentary films from established and emerging directors. Notable titles she worked on include Golden Bear winner BAD LUCK BANGING OR LOONY PORN (2021) by Radu Jude, Sarajevo selection HOUSE OF DOLLS (2020) by Tudor Platon, and Berlinale entries UPPERCASE PRINT (2020) by Radu Jude and MONSTERS (2019) by Marius Olteanu. Carla is currently in post-production for Ana-Maria Comănescu's debut feature HORIA and developing three TV series projects. With extensive training from EAVE, Emerging Producers, and more, she is an EFA and EWA member.

Production company profile

Helmed by a collective of producers (Ada Solomon, Carla Fotea, Diana Caravia and Alexandru Solomon), MICROFILM is a Romanian production company created to develop and produce socially relevant films which constantly challenge the cinematic language. We aim to nurture fresh talents and help acclaimed directors break new boundaries. We are united by the belief that films should ask questions which are not always comfortable and show perspectives which are not always visible. Recent titles INCLUDE BAD LUCK BANGING OR LOONY PORN (2021) by Radu Jude, winner of the 2021 Berlinale Golden Bear; MAMMALIA (2023) by Sebastian Mihăilescu, Berlinale Forum; IVANA THE TERRIBLE (2019) by Ivana Mladenovic, Special Jury Prize in Locarno; the feature documentary HOUSE OF DOLLS (2020) by Tudor Platon, Sarajevo IFF 2020; the minority co-productions: FOOLS (2022) by Polish director Tomasz Wasilewski, Karlovy Vary, and SIMPLE WOMEN (2019) by Italian director Chiara Malta, Toronto IFF. In 2022, microFILM was named among the 75 best European independent production companies by Screen Daily.

Where are we at?

PRODUCTION BUDGET
146.000 EUR

NEEDED FOR COMPLETION
50.000 EUR

TERRITORIES AVAILABLE
World, excluding Romania and Moldova

EXPECTED RELEASE
The beginning of 2024

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